You've read the conversation three times, looking for the moment it turned. He was warm, then vague. Or he made a joke, and somehow you ended up explaining yourself.
In a Message Check we look at that conversation together and separate what he actually wrote from what you filled in. Because those two feel identical while you're reading.
How this looks in practice
Her: Can you give me a day? "Sometime this week" is hard to plan around.
Him: lol okay, so demanding 😄 I've got a life too you know
Reading it, it sounds like a joke, and you start explaining yourself. What he's actually doing is turning your request into the problem instead of answering it. In a session we find exactly these moments and look at what you could write instead.
What clients say
„What stood out most was her ability
to get me to visualise problems and situations in a way that made me
see them in a completely new light.“
- Jordan Scott -
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