You know your pattern. And the same men keep showing up.
You've done the work. You can explain exactly why it happens, and it happens anyway. The insight always arrives. Just too late.
I help you catch the moment you start losing yourself. The moment you explain away what you just saw, or make yourself smaller to keep him close. That's where things can still change.
You're the most self-aware person in every room. And you still wonder if you're the problem.
Different name. Same man.
New face, new story, same ending. Close enough to hope, never close enough to stay. And you're back to decoding his messages at midnight.
You fill the gaps.
When he's unclear, you adjust. You guess what he meant, soften what you need, take care of the mood. Replaying every word, you notice how far you've bent.
Everyone's firefighter.
When someone's life falls apart, you're the first call. You drop everything and show up. But when it's your turn, you can't think of anyone to call.
Plot twist
Same you. Different ending.
You see it early.
You recognize the pattern while it's starting. On the second date, in the first vague message. And you trust what you see enough to act on it.
You ask.
When he's unclear, you ask what he means. Asking for what you want, big or small, feels natural. And you like who you are next to him.
Your turn.
You let people see all of you, the hard days too. You say when you're struggling and ask for help. Out loud. Before everything's on fire.
About me
I know what it's like to see the fire coming and open the door anyway.
When I was eleven, I read "The Arsonists". A man senses that the strangers in his house are arsonists, but he's too afraid to kick them out. So he tells himself he's just being polite. I swore I'd never lie to myself like that.
I kept that promise. Years later, I saw every warning sign clearly. I could name exactly what was happening. I still opened the door.
Change took years. I learned to trust myself again and to lean on others. And eventually, it showed in who I was drawn to. The restless men lost their pull. Calm started to feel like home.
I know how much it matters when someone finally believes what you saw. So that's where we start. I'll listen, and I'll take you seriously.
The way through
From doubting yourself to trusting what you see
You know your pattern. What changes it are new experiences, small ones, in real life, until your body believes what your head already knows. Every story has its own pace. This is roughly the path.
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Being heard
You tell me what happened, including the parts you usually leave out too. I listen and take you seriously. For many women, it's the first time in years someone does.
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Seeing clearly
Together we sort what he actually said and did from what you made of it. Bit by bit, the confusion settles. You stop asking yourself whether you're overreacting.
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Catching the moment
We find where your pattern starts: the knot in your stomach, the urge to smooth things over, the late-night rereading. You begin to notice it while it's happening.
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Choosing differently
The next vague message, the next date, the next time you want to say no. You try it in real life, and we look at what happened. Slowly, trusting yourself becomes normal.
Systemic coach, former designer, and the person strangers somehow tell their life story to within ten minutes.
I listen closely, I notice what's left unsaid, and I'll tell you what I see. You can bring anything here, including the heavy stuff. Sometimes we even find a little lightness in it.
I have had quite a few coaching sessions with Sabine, and they have always helped me a lot, because she knows how to ask good questions so that you find your own way to a solution. She has also supported me in resolving inner conflicts and blocks, and in developing more self-confidence and acceptance in certain situations. Her trustworthy and understanding nature gave me the chance to reflect on some things more consciously and to work on myself accordingly. What I especially appreciate is her humorous approach: Sabine manages to accompany even difficult topics with lightness and a dash of humor. That makes the sessions not only effective, but also lively and inspiring.
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With Sabine it's easy to open up. With her empathetic and confident manner, she shows new paths that help you see things differently and see yourself in a more beautiful light.
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Marina Kabus
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I have done coaching with Sabine several times, and every time I'm amazed at how much she draws out of me. How deep the interventions go, and how many insights you gain about yourself and about what you really want. You can't get on your own to where Sabine leads you with her questions and her coaching. You discover so many ways of dealing with the hurdles in your life, develop new spaces for solutions and reactivate abilities that had gathered dust. I'm looking forward to my next coaching session with Sabine and I'm so glad I found her.
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Marie-Theres Seiler
★★★★★
The sessions with Ms Bausch were enriching for me in every respect. I was able to talk about my fears without hesitation. As we worked together, the tension in me eased. Each time I felt a clear sense of relief. Ms Bausch's power spilled over onto me like a wave. Her empathy and her strength, paired with skill, are characteristic of Ms Bausch. As a coach, she has done me a great deal of good.
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Alexandra Ruoß
★★★★★
I always felt very comfortable and in good hands in my coaching with Sabine. With her empathetic and at the same time funny, open manner and her targeted questioning techniques, she helped me gain new perspectives, see my challenges more clearly and structure my next steps. Highly recommended! Thank you so much!
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Olha Ishchenko
★★★★★
I am incredibly grateful to have found Sabine as my coach. From our very first session, she created a safe, understanding space where I felt completely at ease sharing my challenges. Her warmth, empathy, and genuine commitment to my growth made all the difference. Sabine's unique insights and gentle guidance have truly helped me unlock new perspectives, and I leave every session feeling empowered and inspired. I wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone seeking meaningful, compassionate support on their journey ❤️
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Tőzsér Anikó
★★★★★
Working with Sabine has been truly transformative. She listens without judgment and gently guides me toward solutions I hadn't considered. Her compassionate and insightful approach created a space where I always felt understood and supported. Sabine's empathy and expertise have helped me navigate challenging times, and her practical advice has made a real difference. I'm deeply grateful for her support and highly recommend her coaching to anyone looking to grow and find clarity.
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Jordan Scott
★★★★★
Sabine is a wonderful coach, I had a genuinely impactful and positive experience working with her. From the first session, she created a space where I felt comfortable to discuss my problems. Her coaching style was both engaging and empowering. She helped me identify the underlying causes of the challenges I was facing, which was difficult for me at the start, without ever imposing her advice or judgment. What stood out most was her ability to get me to visualise problems and situations in a way that made me see them in a completely new light. Through her thoughtful guidance and insightful techniques, I was able to uncover them for myself. Sabine embodies everything you'd want in a great coach: a good listener, insightful, and supportive. I'm very grateful for the learning and experience I gained through our sessions.
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Lena Lenzenmaier
★★★★★
Sabine helped me a lot to reach my goals. I always felt comfortable in our conversations. Sabine was open to everything, always showed understanding and responded to all my wishes and goals. She adapted to me (number of goals, implementation...). In the first session I realized what coaching really means. Before that, I had imagined that Sabine would hand me ready-made strategies. I quickly realized it isn't that simple; she helped me develop suitable strategies myself. That helped me much more, because I have to think for myself about what really helps me and what I can actually put into practice.
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Sarah Riegert
★★★★★
Sabine coached me on my book project. Talking with her about my goals helped me keep pursuing my dream despite two kids and a job, and, even though the book isn't finished yet, kept me motivated over the long run. Sabine is empathetic, worked with me using different methods and in this way developed the solutions that were right for me. Especially for fundamental life decisions and personal projects, I could imagine coaching with Sabine again at any time.
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Fab J
★★★★★
I had the pleasure of completing 16 coaching sessions with Sabine, and her support was truly transformative. She helped me restructure my personal job search strategy, gave me honest and empathetic feedback, and did all of this with a refreshing lightness that made the process enjoyable. I was particularly impressed by her ability to help me overcome self-imposed blocks while at the same time creating a space in which I felt comfortable sharing my personal experiences and thoughts. Sabine's approach is well structured, flexible and very well-founded, so every session was valuable. I am incredibly grateful for her support and can recommend her to anyone looking for a coach who combines expertise with genuine care.